What If Your Biggest Church Debate
Is Actually a Divine Opportunity?
Adventists argue about a lot -- women's ordination, music and worship, makeup and jewelry, and the list goes on. The question is, how can Christians move forward together when they don't agree?
Based on Romans 14 and I Corinthians 8, this book explores a practical path to answering that question.
WHAT YOU'LL DISCOVER IN THIS BOOK:
Spot the Essentials Fast – Learn a simple filter that separates core Adventist doctrine from personal preference.
Argue Less, Understand More – See every hot-button issue laid out with side-by-side biblical, Ellen White, and wider Christian supporting evidence.
Stop Sabbath-Dinner Showdowns – Gain step-by-step conversation tools that turn debates into calm, constructive dialogue at home or church.
Lead with Grace, Not Guilt – Discover how Romans 14 principles defuse judgmental attitudes and bring about genuine acceptance.
Plug-and-Play Toolkits – Implement ready-made checklists and mentoring plans navigating dancing, Halloween, baptism prep, first-day guest speakers, women in ministry, and more.
Boost Bible Confidence – Sharpen interpretive skills so you can explain why you believe what you believe...without the need to “win.”
Focus on Mission Again – Shift energy from internal skirmishes to outward service, making your local church more welcoming and effective.
COMPANION RESOURCE PAK
Get the full experience in nine exclusive companion videos with over 10 hours of engaging discussions with guests Tim Nixon, Claudia Allen, Dr. Patrick Graham, Eric Kelly, Dr. Lola Johnston, former Philadelphia mayor John Street, and more. Topics include:
Adventist Essentials
How To Have A Good Church Fight
Shall We Dance?
Easter, Halloween, and the Pagan Problem
Modesty in a Changing World
The Question of Ellen White
Gifts and Gender: The Question of Women in Ministry
The Baptism Battle: How Soon Is Too Soon?
BONUS VIDEO: Adventists and Politics - Should We Be Involved Or Not
Frequently Asked Questions
Who is this book for?
This book is for anyone tired of Adventist “friendly fire.” It explains how we can advance the mission of the church when our convictions conflict - when we just don’t agree. This book helps us to experience the unity in diversity that Jesus prayed for in John 17.
If you’ve ever asked, “Why do we keep fighting—and how do we move forward?” this book gives you the biblical lenses, historical context, and practical toolkits to turn conflict into real community. Whether you’re a lifelong member or brand-new to the pew, you’ll be equipped to keep your convictions strong, conversations civil, and the gospel unmistakably front-and-center.
Who are the guest panelists in the Resource Pack Companion Videos?
Our panelists are industry experts including Claudia Allen, Jason O'Rourke, Anslem Paul, Timothy Nixon, Eric Kelly, Lola Moore Johnston, Patrick Graham, and a bonus presentation with former Philadelphia Mayor John Street.
What is the Clear Book Series?
The Clear Book Series is a set of concise books by Dr. Wilson that appeal to the reader with real questions but limited time. The tagline is "Brief. Bold. Biblical."
